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Reaching Out for Answers

In the past couple of weeks I’ve received a few messages from people who have read my piece, “A Gifted Education,” in the Harvard Educational Review.  It’s been quite a trip to hear from strangers who read my work, and I’m absolutely honored by being able to get my story out there and have it make an emotional impact on its audience.

A couple of the messages have asked the basic question, “If I’m a parent in a similar situation that your parents were in, what should I do?”

Quick summary for those who are unable to access the article since it’s behind a pay wall:  I spent my school years weaving in and out of public and private institutions in small towns in Kentucky.  Although I found some amazing summer programming courtesy of the Center for Gifted Studies at Western Kentucky University, my typical curriculum bored me to an extreme.  This boiled over during high school and manifested itself in drug use, self-destructive behaviors, and disciplinary problems at school.  My parents sought a solution within the system but were unable to find one.  I ended up dropping out of high school after my sophomore year and attending college at 16 (this solution didn’t ultimately work out, but that’s another story).

The truth is I don’t have an answer.  I can tell you that going to an academically rigorous four year college at 16 years old was not the best decision for me, as I was not ready socially or academically.  I hadn’t ever needed to study, or really spend time on homework, up until that first year of college, and trying to learn how to do that while simultaneously learning to live without the comfort of family or familiar friends and being known as the 16 year old in college (word got out somehow, always) was too much for me.  For my specific situation, I think going to community college for a year or two would’ve been a better solution.  I might have been bored during classes, but I would’ve learned how to better manage my time while still having the safety net of home and local friends behind.

But, obviously, a solution should’ve been put in place before 16.  I could list a ton of organizations that might’ve helped me–some didn’t exist when I was younger, some did but I was unaware of them, and some  my family and I knew of but didn’t offer services appropriate to my situation–but that serves little purpose as there will always be a situation where the programs and support offered by those organizations can’t be of assistance.  The truth is, like with many things, that there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer.  My advice to parents would be to think locally, regionally, and nationally (this, of course, relies on the parents having the time to do that, but what else can you do?).


Find allies within the school system.  Sympathetic teachers or staff can make a huge difference in terms of advocacy and opening doors.  Even if they’re unable to do much within the system, having an oasis for your child within an otherwise oppressive school environment can make a big difference.  For me, there was a substitute teacher who really made a difference by being available for conversations and for the occasional unsanctioned field trip.

Consider “internships” in your child’s interest.  Obviously, it takes a special situation for this to happen, and a special mentor for it to be meaningful, but finding a focus like this can help alleviate your child’s lack of outlets in school.  This could include shadowing someone at work, or volunteering somewhere.  Possible venues: newspapers, libraries, animal shelters.  Also consider contacting professors at a local university.  If you get 20 “no’s” and 1 “yes,” it’s still worth it.


Most states have a state-level organization that will be indispensable in helping you find resources.  For Kentucky, I linked WKU’s office above.  For Texas, there’s TAGT.  If you’re having a hard time finding one for your state/region, contact one of the national agencies below.

I previously mentioned summer programming – similar camps and classes are offered across the country.  Scholarships are often available as well.  Sometimes national level organizations offer versatile scholarships to programs across the country.

After school programming exists as well, although this will be fairly limited geographically.

In addition to summer programming, there are also full-time academies and magnet programs.  Again, this limits you with financial, geographic, and other factors, but you should be aware of them.  Three that come to my mind are the Gatton School at Western Kentucky University, the Robinson Center for Young Scholars at the University of Washington, and the Texas Academy for Math and Science at the University of North Texas.  Growing up, I was always very jealous of my friends who got to attend schools like duPont Manual.  Recently I got to check out the science projects of a neat private school here in Austin – the ACE Academy.

(Note:  I hate feeling like I always make this disclaimer, but yes, I agree, there are problems with magnet schools and academies and their admission processes and selection methodology.  I also agree that programs like the ones I’ve endorsed above have the potential to create segregation, especially class-based, due to the requirements in order to attend.  However, I don’t think that discredits them entirely from being a possibility, and I think there are a lot of organizations out there that are doing a great job.  In absence of perfect solutions or a perfect world I urge you to make use of and become a participant and an agent of change in the existing, imperfect system.)


A quick laundry list, each with its own programs and resources, in no particular order.

SENG – Supporting the Emotional Needs of the Gifted
Hoagies – Collection of resources
Duke TIP – Talent Identification Program
NAGC – National Association for Gifted Children
IEA – Institute for Educational Advancement
Davidson Gifted – Offers scholarships and resources
Prufrock Press – Publishes a ton of gifted-related stuff

I apologize for not being familiar with agencies outside the US.  I’d appreciate other links being sent to me.  I hope this helps, although by simply doing enough research to read this post you’re already doing a great job for your child.

Outside content for today – A PDF of David Foster Wallace’s short story, “Good Old Neon,” which I wish someone had made me read when I was going through some of the stuff discussed above.

Ten Books for the Academically Gifted Child

Last minute shoppers rejoice?

With the holiday season here, I’ve been spending a lot more time than usual around young people, and for me that means reading is pushed to the front of my head.  What books should I read out loud to my niece?  What books should I recommend to friends with older children?  This train of thought led me to some list making, and I came up with ten books I would recommend to academically gifted students.  Note, I left out a lot of GREAT books in favor of ones that have a specific appeal to kids who are a little different from their peers–maybe they’re a little more clever, and maybe they have a little harder time fitting in.  The following ten books are what I came up with, and they appear in roughly the order of their age appropriateness.


1)  The Stinky Cheese Man / The True Story of the Three Little Pigs

Being able to look at ideas from new perspectives is an important skill, and in this case, it’s hilarious.  The fact that these target very traditional stories makes them extra appealing.  I list these together since they’re by the same creator, and based on the same concept.

2)  From the Mixed-up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler

E. L. Konigsburg gets two entries on this list for being awesome.  This book begins with the premise of a child running away to a museum, which should be enough in and of itself, but the rest of the story is full of cleverness and inquiry.

3)  Matilda

The movie is pretty good, but Dahl’s book is the real deal (in no small part due to Quentin Blake’s illustrations).  Matilda goes up against an evil school headmaster and some pretty awful parents using her intelligence and a few small superpowers.

4)  The View from Saturday

This book, also by Konigsburg, is the very first one I thought of when I envisioned this list.  The plot centers around the four members  of an Academic Bowl (Quiz Bowl) team, and the life experiences that have led them to come together and be able to do win the academic competitions.  My description isn’t doing the book justice… I read it a dozen or so times as a child, and I think any child, especially those with a connection to this type of team, will fall in love with it as well.

5)  The Westing Game

The only book on this list to have adult protagonists, The Westing Game is a fantastic puzzle of a book.  I remember rereading it multiple times once I knew the “answer” to see the clues leading up to the ending.


6)  My Side of the Mountain

Despite having a pretty wonderful home life, I still often fantasized about running away, convinced I could make it on my own.  This book was a great way to live out that fantasy, while still being reminded that it wasn’t as simple of an idea as it sounded in my head.

7)  Ender’s Game

Although Card’s later works got a little… weird, this book is still an intense sci-fi story about being the best of the best, and about how alienating a “gift” can be.  You can see a lot of the inspiration for the Hunger Games series here.


8)  The Golden Compass

I was very sad when the movie for this ended up not doing well, especially because I think they did an amazing job with the casting.  I love, love, love this trilogy, but the first book is by far the best, and Lyra is a fascinating protagonist.  Parts of the plot depend on her being able to quickly persuade adults into believing her, both by logic and by lies.  Plus, it has bears in armor.  Also, this book probably belongs in the Middle School section, but the 2nd and 3rd books in the series are a slight step up.

9)  A Separate Piece

I left out Catcher in the Rye from this list, because I think it should be on everyone’s list, and because I think A Separate Piece  and the last book on this list fill its role for an academically gifted teenager just as well, if not better.  A Separate Piece is the best portrayal of the kind of intense friendships that anyone can develop, but tend to pop up among the academically gifted due to their lack of connection to the majority of their peers: when they find someone they can connect with, they latch on with a passion.

10)  The Perks of Being a Wallflower

The reason I prefer Perks to Catcher for this particular list is that Catcher‘s Caulfield is on his own throughout most of the book–this book delves into the same isolating personality that Caulfield has, but shows what that looks like in a more modern, more realistic life.  I’m not a huge fan of the ending, but c’est la vie.  This book is pretty explicit in material, but my recommendation is, of course, that reading it and having a conversation about it is a better path than trying to censor it.

What would your list look like?  Dr. Bertie Kingore compiled another fantastic list with some non-fiction books here, and Hoagie’s has their own section on the subject.

TAGT 2012 Conference Write-Up

Background – As I mentioned in a previous entry, I recently interviewed the Texas Association for the Gifted‘s associate director, Tracy Weinberg.  I loved my conversation with him and through it I learned about their annual conference, which took place in Dallas last weekend.  I attended as an advocate, observer, and all-around interested party.  A big thank you to the conference organizers, as they offer a significant student discount which made it easier for me to participate.

This year, the conference marked TAGT’s 35th anniversary.  The theme for this year was “Building Connections”, and the conference’s purpose is to bring together parents, educators, administrators, advocates, and vendors for training and networking.  You can see the official page for it here.  Although I have attended academic and writing conferences, this was my first experience partaking in an event like this one.  Due to the scope of the conference, my experience represents a very small subset of the sessions that took place, and I was only there for two of the three days.

General Notes – I was amazed at the size of the event.  At the most heavily attended session I was around for, Thursday morning’s keynote speech, I’d estimate there were 800+ people in the audience.  Given TAGT is headquartered out of a five person office, the sheer amount of work provided by those five people and volunteers is breathtakingly impressive.

Planning in general just seemed to be stellar.  Of all the sessions I went to, none were big enough to run out of chairs, yet none were uncomfortably under-attended either.  Each time-period for choosing particular sections had a great variety.  Only minor technology snafus, etc.

The Dallas Sheraton was a mixed-bag for location.  On one hand, it’s very conveniently located, and while it’s relatively expensive for my budget, it was easy to find a nice, cheaper alternative within walking distance.  On the other hand, the lack of free wi-fi really hurt, given how big a role Twitter is beginning to play in this part of the conference.  I know providing wi-fi to 800 people is no easy matter, but $25 for a day worth of wi-fi is awful.  I guess with cell-phone technology progressing the way it is, it’s a moot point.  More devastatingly, their coffeeshop was not good!

Speakers – While every speaker I observed was a skilled orator, there was definitely a difference in how appropriate their talks were for educators.  Some appeared to be aimed at people with no previous interactions with gifted education, while others delved very deeply into the theoretical and felt very removed from the issues the teachers in the audience might face.  Overall though, I learned a great deal and didn’t find my mind wandering, which is a big step up from the academic conferences I’ve been privy to.

Dr. Jeff Turner, Coppell ISD Superintendent, TAGT Friend of the Gifted Award Recipient – Turner started his speech by “blaming” his success on being lucky enough to be surrounded by good teachers, smart move in front of an audience of teachers!  Used his time for a very energetic, impassioned argument against standardized testing and for differentiation, although I particularly appreciated him noting that it’s hard to take differentiation seriously with 35 student classrooms.  He’s involved with an effort to significantly move Texas Education away from standardized testing through the organization Transform Texas.  He has proposed a really cool idea – allowing five schools to stop requiring standardized testing and see how they perform on other metrics instead.  The idea being that they will beat the other schools within a few years, due to not needing to teach the tests.

Nakia Douglas and Dalton Sherman, Keynote – Principal and student of the Barack Obama Male Leadership Academy in Dallas.  Sherman, 14, is a ball of charismatic energy, and he gave an emotional, inspirational speech that felt very appropriate for motivating a day of sessions on gifted education.  Douglas was not quite as engaging as his younger counterpart, but his content was much more grounded and applicable, showing how the Academy he represents has made some small but significant changes to their approach to educating and has achieved significant results.  Two biggest takeaways: Have higher expectations and you will get higher results.  Being more holistic is very realistic, the Academy has a longer school day and school year that includes required extracurricular activities, community service, and academic counseling.

Dr. Todd Kettler, UNT Educational Psychology, “Gifted Program Options at Middle and High School” – I chose this session for two reasons: 1) Gifted education failed for me personally starting in middle school and I wanted to hear about some of the ways it could succeed instead, and 2) I wanted to hear about the Texas Academy of Math and Science at UNT.  Kettler received an award for being TAGT’s 2012 State Advocate for the Gifted, and it’s not hard to understand why.  He quickly lays out a no-nonsense presentation of which gifted services have been proven to work, which haven’t, and demonstrates how our education system regularly hampers the ones that work.  He hammers on acceleration, bringing up the fact that because of weighted GPA, students are essentially punished for testing out of classes.  Biggest thing is flexibility, learning through independent study or summer programming or correspondence should be viable and accepted, not penalized.  He decried differentiation, saying basically that it might be effective but that no teachers actually do it.  Favorite comment, paraphrased – “If you ever want to know how good a high school’s gifted education program is, ask them how many people asked to test into it last year.  Most of the time the answer will be zero.  Think about what that means.”  He ended by saying he doesn’t think there’s such a thing as a gifted strategy, because everything he discussed really applies to all students.  This becomes a common theme throughout the talks I attended.  Kettler was by far my favorite content talk.

Dr. Richard Courtright, Gifted Education Research Specialist for Duke Talent Identification Program, “Pulling it All Together: A Synthesis Model for Differentiated Curriculum for the Gifted” – As a child, I was a “member” of TIP, but I don’t remember this doing anything for me other than going to an awards ceremony, so I wanted to hear more about the organization and thought that hearing a pro-differentiation talk would be an interesting counterpoint to the first talk I attended.  However, Courtright’s talk was slightly disappointing.  It was very big picture about gifted education as a whole, and very theoretical.  It felt like it would have been much better aimed at education students, not educators.  He did have some good soundbytes though (some taken from other sources) – “Reading isn’t anymore of a hobby than breathing,” “We’re doing a great job of preparing our students for the 20th century,” and “Differentiation – ‘Find out what they don’t know and don’t teach it.”  Most of his recommendations for differentiation were systemic, not things the educators in the audience could do in their classroom.  Again, his strategies could have applied to any student, not just gifted, but if they were applied gifted would benefit since currently not being taught to at all.

Dr. James Webb, Great Potential Press, “Motivation and Underachievement” – Right off the bat, you could tell Webb’s talk was going to be good.  His talk was the highest attended breakout session I saw.  His first few minutes were used to a) Plug SENG, a great organization (Quick note here, of all the big name organizations I’m familiar with, the Davidson Institute was the only one I didn’t see/hear.  Not familiar enough with the politics of gifted ed organizations to comment on this.) and b) State that the problem of gifted motivation is imaginary, instead the problem is gifted students being motivated in different directions from where schools/teachers want to be.  Webb is the best presenter I saw, and while his content was mostly stuff that I would hope was repetitive for the audience, he had some strong gems about using strengths to supplement weaknesses (example – interest in spiders leads to writing professional letter to scientist) and about watching for dietary/health contributions to problems in classroom.  Said he used to be anti-homeschooling, now very for it, because the social argument against it doesn’t make sense – gifted students’ friends are often outside their age group anyway.  Great, pragmatic connections between Dabrowski’s overexcitabilities and classroom management.

Lisa Conrad, TAGT, “Why You Should #gtchat on Twitter” – I was sad that this talk wasn’t well attended, because I think Twitter could be a great tool for providing some of the same networking and resource sharing that conferences like this provide, but 24/7 and for free.  I was also concerned about being able to articulate why Twitter is good for educators in a presentation, but Conrad did a great job of giving tangible examples of the benefits, as well as showing the connections to other social media sites. She also did a good job of showing how professional networking can carry over into personal or hobbyist networking, which is a valuable motivator for this kind of work.  Additional note here, this was the first conference I’ve been at where I followed along on Twitter, and it was definitely cool to get a sense of some of the sessions I wasn’t able to attend in real-time, as well as be able to comment and discuss the talks as they were progressing.

Dr. Patricia Gatto-Walden, Psychologist Specializing in the Gifted, Keynote, “The Heart of the Matter” – While I felt this went on a little long and was a little specific for a big audience keynote speech, I do think it was a good choice for the day focused on gifted parents.  Talk does a good job of laying out how emotional needs of gifted can be unmet by their academic structure.  Favorite part was discussing how gifted children often only have their intellectual selves valued, and other aspects of their being are ignored.  Was not a fan of how binary she presents giftedness, instead of presenting it as the huge range that it is.  Definitely a talented speaker, great job of using visual metaphors to drive points.

Dr. Michael Sayler, UNT Education Department, “Gifted and Thriving: A Deeper Understanding of the Meaning of G/T” – Good, philosophy challenging introduction discussing what we expect out of “achievement”.  Gives examples of highly gifted going into rodeo work or becoming a stay at home parent and that still being success.  This talk provided a good balance to the keynote speech, showed very practically why expectations can alter emotional well-being.  Lots of good stuff on the research of happiness and its connection to gifted education.  Toward the end, as he moved away from research and into his own musings on the dangers of gaming and the need for spirituality, he started to lose me.

Conclusion – Definitely glad I attended, gave me yet another fresh perspective on my work, and provided me with ideas for future research on organizations and individual people.  The biggest takeaway is how much of this stuff is connected to our education system as a whole and to all students, which makes articulating the specific needs of the gifted more difficult, but raises the value of meeting those needs.

For your outside content perusal, a thread from Reddit discussing men in education.  I was thinking about this theme a lot at the conference, where the M:F ratio was maybe 1:30.  Warning, the thread is from Reddit, so it probably has awful language and opinions somewhere in there.